private pilgrimage

forgiving & healing

The Secret of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is defined as ?a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness.?

We are the ones who receive the most benefit from forgiveness, not the other person. A spirit of unforgiveness complicates and compromises our daily life. Forgiving others releases us from anger and allows us to receive the healing we need.

In practicing forgiveness, people are able to break a cycle that so many people get into?an ongoing, destructive back and forth where?no one really wins.

This distortion can injure and undermine your warm and loving feelings for your partner.

?If you don’t practice forgiveness, you might be the one who pays most dearly.?

Forgiveness means a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge

The act that hurt or offended you might always be with you, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help free you from the control of the person who harmed you. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting or excusing the harm done to you or making up with the person who caused the harm. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.

Letting go of grudges and bitterness can make way for improved health and peace of mind.

Forgiveness can lead to:

  • Healthier relationships
  • Improved mental health
  • Less anxiety, stress and hostility
  • Lower blood pressure
  • Fewer symptoms of depression
  • A stronger immune system
  • Improved heart health
  • Improved self-esteem

What are the effects of holding a grudge?

If you’re unforgiving, you might:

  • Bring anger and bitterness into every relationship and new experience
  • Become so wrapped up in the wrong that you can’t enjoy the present
  • Become depressed or anxious
  • Feel that your life lacks meaning or purpose, or that you’re at odds with your spiritual beliefs
  • Lose valuable and enriching connectedness with others

This may sound good in theory, in practice forgiveness can sometimes feel impossible.

By forgiving, you are accepting the reality of what happened and finding a way to live in a state of resolution with it. This can be a gradual process?and it doesn’t necessarily have to include the person you are forgiving. Forgiveness isn’t something you do for the person who wronged you; it’s something you do for you.

So if forgiveness is something you do for yourself and if it can help you heal, just think: do you want to start with a clean slate and leave the past behind?

Rediscover the magic of life and allow for more love, power, harmony and peace in yourself?

Then you are very welcome to this private healing -pilgrimage in Bali.

Exclusive Private Pilgrimage on Forgiving & Healing

You will guaranteed return home happier and more in harmony (in general a completely different state of being than the state you came to Bali with.)

This nine day retreat will lead you on a pilgrimage to many sacred places in Bali, and will help you on your inner journey to harmony, inner peace, love and a more fulfilling life.

The program consists of several private healings and meditations.

Many of these take place at sacred places that have been used for thousands of years by the local people for healing and cleansing ..?Eg .. healing rituals under the holy waterfall and visits to several more then 1000 year old temples, each with their own vibration.

In one of the more important temples you will receive a special blessing by the main priest.

The strong and loving energy of these places is very impressive and of course Stefan will be there to help you letting go..

Disturbing programs and emotions will be transformed and thus you will gain a very different perspective on your life.

This pilgrimage entails a 9-day programme including:

  • Arrival, private healing session and relaxation.
  • Visit to Sacred Waterfall Temple for Melukat ritual. Melukat?? is derived from the word ?Lukat? which means: to clean or purify and letting go, or to let go of old negative-emotions, -experiences and -attitudes through a religious ritual
  • Exercises to bring clarity into grudge and forgiving and release of the grudge
  • Visit to and meditation in three of the main temples of Bali – one of these is a temple cave with hundreds of thousands of bats(!)
  • Melukat ritual in the River Temple.
  • Recreational visit and swim at beautiful waterfall
  • Lunch at black sand beach.
  • Visit to a traditional Balinese healer of 86 years, magic at it?s best.
  • Lunch at a traditional Balinese restaurant
  • Time to explore the island or to go shopping etc.
  • Melukat ritual in the river at a special but not well known age-old temple.
  • Ritual in a cave in a thousand year old temple.
  • Lunch at famous rice terraces (Unesco World Heritage Site).
  • Famous Kecac performance: an epic story from the Ramayana, performed by approximately 100 chanting and dancing men, all? from one village.
  • Melukat ritual and blessing in one of the oldest and most important temples of Bali.
  • A Vedic Chart Reading or Psychic Card Reading for insight in yourself and future tendencies, with advice on how to deal with these in the best way possible.
  • Private Healing session, relaxation and departure.

Price: 2495US$ p.p


  • airport pick up and drop off,
  • 3* hotel, breakfast,
  • traditional Balinese lunches,
  • transport with private car and driver,
  • entry fees,
  • offerings,
  • healings,
  • instruction,
  • Self help program,
  • rituals,
  • use of ritual dress.

(air ticket not included)

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